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What to Wear for Your Engagement Session: A Stress-Free Guide

Writer's picture: Jaclyn Kushner PhotographyJaclyn Kushner Photography

A couple stands embracing on a sandy dune under a clear blue sky. She wears a white dress; he’s in a blue shirt and shorts. Romantic mood.


Your engagement session is coming up—exciting! But now you’re probably thinking, What do I wear? Am I doing this right?


Don’t worry, I’ve got you! I’m here to guide you every step of the way so you feel confident, comfortable, and completely yourself in front of the camera.




A smiling couple stands together outdoors, with the man embracing the woman. They are surrounded by green foliage and a brick path.

Can I Be Too Dressed Up?


Absolutely not! If there’s ever a time to elevate your look, this is it.

Just keep this in mind: Make sure you and your partner are on the same level of dressiness—we don’t want one of you in a ballgown or suit while the other is in khakis and a sundress.




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What Should We Wear?


📍 Aim for an outfit you’d wear to a fancy restaurant

—a step above your everyday style.


📍 Pick something that makes you feel amazing. 

Confidence shines through in photos, so wear something that highlights what you love about yourself!


📍 Coordinate, don’t match. 

Choose colors that complement each other, your skin tones, and the season.


📍 Timeless is best. 

Classic styles and neutral or muted tones will keep your photos looking stunning for years to come.


💡 Bonus: Flowy dresses or skirts photograph beautifully and add movement to your images!



 


What Should We Avoid?


🚫 Logos & Writing – These can be distracting and take away from the focus—you two!

🚫 Neon Colors & Tiny Prints – They don’t translate well in photos and can clash with natural backgrounds.

🚫 Being Too Matchy-Matchy – Avoid wearing identical colors or nearly identical outfits. Instead, opt for coordinating tones that complement each other.

🚫 Wrinkles & Stains – Bring a steamer or iron your outfits beforehand to keep everything crisp and polished.



 


What Shoes Should I Wear?


👠 Comfort is key! If we’ll be walking a lot, bring a pair of flats or sneakers to swap in between shots.

👞 Make sure your shoes match your outfit’s level of dressiness.

🥾 Break them in ahead of time! New shoes can be stiff, and we don’t want sore feet halfway through your session.



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What About Hair & Makeup?


💄 This is a great opportunity to test your wedding hair & makeup artist!

👁️ False lashes can make a huge difference! They really help your eyes pop in photos.

Go a little bolder with your makeup than usual. Camera lighting can wash you out, so slightly more saturation will help balance your look.




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Can I Wear Multiple Outfits?


💃 YES! A second outfit adds variety to your gallery. Just make sure we have a place for you to change!



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Still Not Sure? Let’s Chat!


If you’re feeling overwhelmed, don’t stress—I’m here to help! I can help you pick engagement session looks that reflect who you are as a couple.


At the end of the day, your engagement photos should feel like you—just a little more dressed up and camera-ready. Let’s make some magic together! ✨



📸 Ready to book your engagement session?

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